Its all about you doing it, without thinking how tough it would be..

I learnt a lesson...I learnt a lesson today. Dont ask me if i'm going to implement the learning in my life right away...but i learnt a lesson that i should be reminded each day.

Today, my mom and pinni who came from Vijayawada went to chilkoor. both of them do not know how to go. They have never gone to that place without being accompained by any of us. But this time, they had to, as my pinni did not have time to stay back and we did not have time to take our daily routine to back seat. It takes them to catch a bus by 4:30AM, and then catch two other busses inorder to reach chilkoor. Mind you, its not bus after bus. They have to find a way to reach to those bus stops in between. So, me in my own style suggested them that they hire an auto. My husband with this own style of calculations, suggested to hire a car. My brother, with his unique thoughts, suggested that they use auto for half a distance and then bus to make it economical.
But my mom put her foot down and said that she can make it all through busses. We were little worried, you dont beleive...she made it all in busses. And both of them did not look tired.

You may be wondering, what lesson i learnt. Me, being this young, being this knowledgeble about the city, being this needful to travel everyday, fear that i get tired by travelling in busses to commute to office and i end up spending amount that is close to a fresher's salary. And i name it as cost for convenience.

I think its all about i restart commuting on busses, here the convenience is in mind but not in real.

Where are we heading???

I'm not sure where we are heading now....at one side women are empowered, standing on their strong foot, protecting their individuality. On the flip side, there is a news every day about how women are getting attacked for the reason of not being pet in their hands. When a man says "I want you", women are supposed to nod their heads and say OK. If not, she got to experience how acid burns the skin.


Today i'm literally shaken to read the news that a woman & kid was attacked with acid from that woman's husband. Reason being, she did not go to his place after repetive calls from him. So, he got frustrated and thrown the acid on wife & kid. Can a women do the same to him, when she was pissed off too??? Both wife & kid lost their eye sight. How poor is it? What did that kid do to get punished like that? How can a person be so cruel to throw acid on his very own kid?? Forget if its his kid or not, but, how could he do that on a kid. Who has given the right for him to burn the life of that little child?

There are laws about women empowerement, women safety and so much.....on contrary in reality, there is nothing. On Swapnika & Praneetha's acid case, all news channels, social service organizations made a huge protest, unable to bare that mounting pressure, police had encountered that culprit. But after that instance, how many culprits involved in women attacks got punished?

For every instance, does government expects a big shout & screams, only then, its takes some action? People who have committed these crimes are very much still roaming in this society. They should be locked in a dog house and given with dog food. They deserve it. They have no right to move around like humans. I heard about a case in which women fought for pouring acid in his eyes, by whom she got attacked with acid and lost the eye sight. After 12-15yrs, she got the judgement in her favour. Appreciable...but this should'nt have taken more than 12-15mins. These many years he lived life with full content, while the woman was suffering.

There needs to be a law to punish him right away with no courts & cases. He has DONE IT. Why one needs to know why he has done it??? Why he should be given with choice to voice?? Why cant the law be straight forward? If one attacks on women, there should be a punishment and it should be given right away. No arguments, No case, No delays, just the punishment.. Only then, mothers like me can be assured that their daughters are safe in this society.

Busy time - a time pass post

nenu chala busy, got reminded of Junior horlicks ad??? But, its true. i'm really busy, having a bunch of things to complete. So many things to do, but the only thing i'm doing now is to postpone all of them to the day next. Dont know, how long this saga continues. At one point, i might be slapped by some one and be ordered "DO IT RIGHT NOW"

Do you want to do that now???